Move on. .

They say it benefits you to leave the people who bring you down and contribute more tears in your life than smiles; behind. But nobody talks of the people who do bring you tears and leave your heart broken for various unimportant reasons but cannot be left behind no matter how much you try. Our minds don’t always agree with what we emotionally go through and yes I bet everyone would agree that there are people in our lives whom we hate to love, who make our lives miserable, who incredibly bring us down but whatever may it be, cannot be left behind.
Even when you make up your mind to leave them, to move on and finally have peace. The peace is temporary and after few days or maybe weeks you realize your love for that person over weighs the feeling of resent. And you find yourself going back to them, or maybe occasionally they apologize.
Whichever the situation is, you find yourself living the ordeal all over again. Even though you know the drill, it hurts equally this time too. I am not sure if I’ll never understand this self-destructive human behavior.  I've gone through it many times and so have various other people I know.
I don’t know where is this going and I also don’t know if it is possible to be strong enough to actually leave those people behind and have a great life.
I know somewhere in this lies some moral, am just too ignorant to make it out right now. So I’d just hope anybody, who by change stumbles into my blog and reads this would find the message. (I am absolutely sure nobody reads my blog, so maybe nobody will.)
Anyways, maybe it’s just the fear which holds us back, and why we can’t leave them behind and just go ahead and live our lives. Fear; not of not finding another friend like them or not being happy ever without them but the fear that they would never be the same without us, they wouldn't find another person like us. And believe me no matter how mean the world gets there would always be people like those, people for whom the last thing on earth would be to make anybody’s life miserable.

We’re all afraid of rejection.

We don’t ask certain things to people although we’re dying to get an answer. We don’t voice our opinion or act like we want to at times, all because of a simple fear and nobody can deny this, even though, we might not accept this publicly but we know that we’re all afraid of rejection.

We’re afraid that someone doesn't feel the way we do, that someone might say no to us, someone might deny us our right or something that we want. We think too much about what others think, say, do and infer. We think too much about getting denied, we think too much before saying or doing something.  It is strange how we preconceive an opinion, an answer even before knowing what’s going to happen. The truth is we miss out on a lot of stuff only because of this particular fear. Sometimes we lose a life changing opportunity and other times we lose the most important person in our lives. All because of some fear we can’t overcome? Is it worth it? Does it make sense to hold back just few words just because you’re afraid of being rejected or is it okay to act or not act in a certain way because you think a handful of people won’t approve of it. I might be a no body to pass my judgment but all I've learnt through my experiences is that no, this fear is not worth holding back our feeling, our opinions and questions.  I might not always practice what I say but we’ll all agree that if we eliminate this fear of rejection from our lives we can achieve a lot of things. Sometimes it might work otherwise and result in losing something or someone, but then you did gain something too, you overcame your fear of being rejected and told life in its face, “Bring it on, buddy.”